If you’ve ever felt like modern dating apps are all surface and no substance, you’re not alone. At The Library, we believe real connection starts with real insight — not a photo, not a perfect bio, and definitely not a swipe.
That’s why every day, we ask our members a single, thoughtful question — a Daily OR — that gently reveals how they see the world. These small, simple choices say more about us than we realise. And they help us build Matches rooted in what actually matters: how we think, feel, and connect.
Here’s what this week’s Daily ORs explore — and what they might reveal about you or someone you’re about to meet:
🧭 Seek knowledge OR Trust intuition
Do you move through life guided by facts and learning, or by gut feelings and instinct? This OR hints at how we make decisions — and how we make sense of each other.
📚 Value literature as art OR See literature as entertainment
Are books for beauty and reflection, or for escape and enjoyment? This choice reflects how someone relates to creativity, meaning, and mood.
🎨 AI art is creative OR AI art lacks soul
Here we’re looking at how open someone is to technological change — and what they believe creativity should feel like.
🥗 Minimalist meals OR Lavish feasts
A taste of someone’s rhythm and rituals: do they savour simplicity, or do they celebrate through abundance?
🏠 Being near family OR Starting fresh far away
What does home mean to you? This OR offers insight into values around roots, independence, and belonging.
🤸♀️ Competitive sports OR Casual physical activity
How do you move through the world — with ambition and drive, or ease and presence?
🌍 The Industrial Revolution OR The Digital Age
Where do you find inspiration — in the breakthroughs of the past, or in the possibilities of now?
At The Library, these aren’t just idle questions. They’re the start of deeper conversations — and better Matches.
Whether you’re here for online dating or seeking online friendship, we’re building a space where people connect not through pictures, but through personality. No swiping. No selfies. No adverts. Just curiosity, kindness, and conversation.
Ready to meet someone who thinks like you — or surprises you in the best way?
📖 Join The Library today — and start where the best stories always begin: with a great question.