In a world full of swiping, filters, and endless scrolling, The Library offers something quieter — and far more meaningful.
There are no photos. No ads. No algorithms designed to keep you chasing attention. Instead, The Library helps you discover people who think, feel, and live in ways that genuinely connect with you — through something deceptively simple: your answers to the Daily OR.
What is the Daily OR?
Each day, members of The Library are invited to choose between two options — the “OR.” These aren’t superficial questions about hobbies or taste; they’re thoughtful prompts drawn from the seven categories of the Dewey Decimal system, the same framework that organises knowledge in libraries across the world.
Every choice reveals something about how you see yourself, others, and the world around you. Over time, your answers form a nuanced portrait of your personality — the kind of insight that fuels deeper, more authentic online dating and online friendship connections.
This Week’s Daily ORs
Each week brings a new set of questions — one from each Dewey category — designed to spark reflection and understanding. Here’s what members are exploring this week:
- Philosophy & Psychology: Trust experts OR Trust own instincts
Are you guided more by established wisdom or by intuition and lived experience? - Arts & Recreation: Support public arts funding OR Prefer private sponsorship
Do you see creativity as a shared cultural responsibility or something best nurtured by individual passion? - Literature: Keep poetry in exams OR Remove poetry from exams
Do you value emotion and expression as essential to learning, or prefer focus on the practical and measurable? - Place: Seaside holidays OR City breaks
Where do you feel most at ease — in calm simplicity or vibrant exploration? - Food & Drink: Eat British roast dinners OR Eat Mediterranean mezze
Do you find comfort in tradition or inspiration in variety and shared experience? - Technology: Work from home OR Work in offices
Are you most productive when independent, or do you thrive on social rhythm and shared energy? - History & Geography: Protect statues OR Remove statues
Do you see heritage as something to preserve, or as something that should evolve with our values?
Each answer builds a pattern — a glimpse of your priorities, your empathy, and your perspective on change.
Why It Matters
At The Library, connections grow from reflection, not reaction. There are no photos to judge, no endless swipes to exhaust you — just people being thoughtful, curious, and real.
By responding to the Daily OR, you’re not just answering questions — you’re helping us understand how to connect you with others who share your rhythm, or balance it beautifully. Whether you’re searching for meaningful online dating opportunities or genuine online friendship, The Library brings together people who value depth, honesty, and kindness.
Join the Conversation
If you’re ready to slow down, think deeply, and meet people who care about ideas as much as appearances, The Library is waiting for you.
✨ Join The Library today — and discover what your choices reveal about you.