Monday 18th November

Welcome to this week’s ORs! Inspired by the Dewey Decimal system—yes, that clever library method for organising the world’s knowledge—our questions are here to spark connections with warm, like-minded people.

We set the tone for the week with a series of intriguing ORs that’ll have you reflecting on what makes you tick. Monday kicks things off with a classic question: do you thrive on the thrill of competition, or is collaboration more your style? As Tuesday rolls around, the focus shifts to creative and luxurious pursuits—would you rather immerse yourself in the art of life drawing or sail off into sophistication aboard a yacht?

Midweek brings a literary twist: do you find yourself captivated by dark, introspective tales that probe the depths of the human experience, or are you drawn to light, uplifting stories that leave you with a smile? Thursday asks you to choose between two distinct kinds of beauty—will it be the quaint charm of a historical town or the cutting-edge allure of modern architecture?

By Friday, it’s all about food for thought—and for the plate. Are you embracing the vibrancy of a plant-based lifestyle, or is a hearty, meat-focused diet more to your taste? The weekend, as always, shifts gears: Saturday considers your digital habits—are you active and engaged on social media, or do you prefer to steer clear of the online buzz? Finally, Sunday invites you to explore, either losing yourself in the rich stories of historic cities or finding peace in the vast, untamed beauty of natural landscapes.

So, which path will your week take?

Not only do the answers to each OR help you find some good Matches, but they also give you potential icebreakers in your Chat. They’re perfect for sparking that budding friendship, or maybe even igniting the conversation when you meet for your first date.

Not checked in on The Library for a while? No worries, you can catch up on the last 30 days of ORs by heading back into the Daily OR once you have answered today’s.

Enjoy your week, and be well.

Ollie at The Library.

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